Making SQL vs NoSQL Decisions

1. Analyzing Data Structure Requirements

NeedChoose
Strict schema, relationsSQL (Postgres, MySQL)
Flexible / nested docsDocument (MongoDB)
Wide, sparse rowsColumn-family (Cassandra)
Deep relationshipsGraph (Neo4j)
Simple key lookupKey-Value (Redis, DynamoDB)
Full-text searchElasticsearch / OpenSearch

2. Evaluating Query Complexity

PatternBest Fit
Ad-hoc joins, aggregationsSQL
Single-key lookupKV / Document
Known access patterns onlyNoSQL (model per query)
TraversalsGraph

3. Assessing Consistency Requirements

NeedPick
Strong ACIDSQL (Postgres, MySQL) / NewSQL (Spanner, CockroachDB)
TunableCassandra, DynamoDB, MongoDB (read/write concerns)
Eventually consistent OKMost NoSQL
LinearizableSpanner, etcd, FoundationDB

4. Considering Scalability Needs

Scale PatternPick
Vertical (small/medium)Traditional SQL
Read-heavy → replicasSQL with read replicas
Horizontal writesCassandra, DynamoDB, Citus, CockroachDB
Massive globally distributedSpanner, CockroachDB, DynamoDB Global

5. Evaluating Transaction Requirements

NeedPick
Multi-row ACIDSQL — strongest
Single-document atomicMongoDB, DynamoDB single-item
Multi-doc txMongoDB 4.0+ (with cost), Postgres always
Distributed txSpanner, CockroachDB, YugabyteDB
SagasPattern for cross-service workflows

6. Comparing SQL and NoSQL Performance

WorkloadWinner
Complex joinsSQL
Write-heavy time-seriesCassandra, Influx
Massive KV lookupsRedis, DynamoDB
Mixed OLTPSQL (Postgres) excellent
Graph traversalsNeo4j

7. Assessing Operational Complexity

DBOps Cost
Managed SQL (RDS, Cloud SQL)Low
Self-hosted SQLMedium
Cassandra self-hostedHigh
DynamoDB / FirestoreVery low (serverless)
Multi-system polyglotHigher overall

8. Evaluating Team Expertise

FactorDetail
SQL ubiquityEvery engineer knows basics
NoSQL learning curveModeling paradigms differ per engine
Tooling maturitySQL ecosystem deepest
HiringPostgres / MySQL skill is common

9. Choosing Polyglot Persistence

Use CaseStore
Transactional corePostgres / MySQL
Cache / sessionsRedis
SearchElasticsearch / OpenSearch
AnalyticsClickHouse / Snowflake / BigQuery
Time-seriesTimescaleDB / Influx
GraphNeo4j
Note: Each store adds operational and data-sync overhead. Start with one and add only when justified.

10. Making Database Migration Decisions

Migration Decision Workflow

  1. Quantify pain (latency, scale ceiling, cost)
  2. POC target on representative workload
  3. Estimate migration effort + risk
  4. Plan dual-write / shadow read phase
  5. Cutover with rollback path
  6. Decommission source after stabilization
Anti-PatternWhy Bad
Resume-driven migrationReplaces working system with risk
NoSQL because "scale"Most apps fit on a single Postgres for years
Big-bang cutoverNo rollback, high blast radius
Skipping POCSurprises at production load